Fitness isn't always about what you're doing in the gym, RPS or an edible diet it includes mental and emotional strength and health. It also includes your interactions with people and yourself.
I know that 99% of the time, I am right about things but then I also know that I can be so hellbent on being right that how I go about it could make me wrong and then I feel regret about the entire thing. Its hard to be right and not acknowledged for it some times and then feel like you need to argue that point until you come to the point where you didnt say something the right way, you don't consider the right time to prove or justify that you're right. But then when is the right time to be gratified in this manner? There are still people who will know that what you're observing and saying is right and how you feel is valid but will still act as if because you said something that you are in violation for speaking up because your feelings have been violated.
So what do you do?
Well, you do yourself a favor and you give those people space whether they ask for it or not because you need it. Regardless of how much you may care about someone or just want to argue a point with a total stranger, life is just too damn short to run yourself into a circle with people who are just so damn determined on doing what they want to do and then dismissing your rebutle, your point, your feelings or anything until you are now handling anything or going about anything or saying anything in a way you may regret due to their lack of care. If life truly is about "Me v. Me", than you know how to carefully evaluate your own actions as well. Think about what you're going to say and how you're going to say it before you say it. Living with regret is not a comfortable thing. Sometimes it's good to take a step back from what you're destined to say because it actually could save you in the end. Saving connections is good sometimes and the number 1 connection you need to always be aware of saving is the one you have with yourself. Keep yourself connected to yourself. Be aware of how things may cause you to feel and act and make sure you adjust yourself accordingly in such a way where you can still show up for those very people, places and things. You don't want to negatively paint yourself into a corner with an interaction that didn't have to be. This is also a part of taking accountability for your own actions Sometimes, no matter how right you are, you must always think about all aspects of a situation before you speak and act on it.